Deputy Secretary-General Message on Gender Based Violence
Around the world, violence against women and girls, including rape, is skyrocketing.
Many incidents have triggered widespread outrage.
Yet some keep trying to play the oldest game in the book 鈥攖he blame game.
Blame the COVID-19 pandemic. Blame social and economic stress. Blame uncertainty.
Even, outrageously, blame the victim, usually a woman or worse still, a girl.
Blame anything, everything, but the perpetrator.
Let鈥檚 be clear: Sexual violence 鈥� any form of violence 鈥� is simply violence.
There is no excuse. There is no justification. And there must be zero tolerance.
All of us must stand up and speak out.
I am the proud mother of 4 daughters. But the loudest voices urging me to speak up came from my sons.
They said, 鈥淭his is a deadly serious issue. It鈥檚 in all our chat spaces. You need to do something about it. People will listen鈥�.
When I asked what they were hearing, they said it varies: some say violence is not right. But others appallingly say women asked for it!
Really?!
Men and boys who commit violence against women or girls are simply not men.
They are weak. They are shameful.
They are the textbook definition of a coward.
And for those who turn a blind eye or deaf ear saying it鈥檚 a private matter, know that you are accomplices to violence.
Because of these attitudes, millions of women and girls face the clear and present danger of the threat of violence every day 鈥� at home, in school, online.
Men and boys 鈥� I am talking to you: This is on you.
Take responsibility. Speak up. Stand with women and girls.
Join the appeal of United Nations Secretary-General Ant贸nio Guterres for peace everywhere -- in war zones and in homes.
Support the Spotlight Initiative calling on men to stop violence against women and girls.
Let鈥檚 join hands with survivors of violence, including rape. Let鈥檚 listen to their stories. Let鈥檚 call out victim blaming and shaming.
Let鈥檚 remember that if not for a woman and her 9 months of labour, you men would not be here.
Let鈥檚 stand with our mothers, our sisters, our daughters, our partners.
And, together, let鈥檚 declare in one voice: I鈥檓 #WithHer.
